A Beautiful Goodbye, On Your Terms

I serve as a personal assistant for the end-of-life journey, providing non-medical logistical support from final wishes coordination to memorial and celebration of life planning. I bring continuity, calm, and clarity to every step so families can focus on what matters most.

  • I offer hands-on, practical support to help manage the many non-clinical details that arise at the end of life. My role is to act as a personal assistant for individuals and families navigating this time, helping ease the mental and emotional load by taking care of tasks that often feel overwhelming.

    This can include:

    • Communicating with hospice, care teams, or service providers on behalf of the family

    • Organizing important documents and final wishes

    • Scheduling appointments, deliveries, or service visits

    • Managing phone calls, emails, or notifications

    • Coordinating transportation for family, visitors, or belongings

    • Running errands and sourcing supplies

    • Assisting with home organization or downsizing

    • Preparing the space for visitors or bedside support

    • Offering presence and structure during times of uncertainty

    Whether you’re planning ahead or in the midst of a loss, I provide steady, responsive support that adapts to your needs.

  • A meaningful ceremony doesn’t have to follow tradition. It just has to feel true. I help families create personalized memorial ceremonies that reflect the values, stories, and spirit of the person being honored.

    Ceremony design includes:

    • Shaping the flow of the gathering including opening, readings, reflections, and closing

    • Curating music, poetry, rituals, and symbolic elements

    • Supporting the writing of eulogies or personal tributes

    • Recommending ceremony leaders, officiants, or speakers

    • Designing memory tables, visual displays, or spaces for quiet reflection

    • Ensuring the ceremony honors the wishes of the family and the individual

    Whether you need a fully custom approach or help bringing your ideas together, I offer structure and guidance to create a ceremony that feels intentional and heartfelt.

  • Once the ceremony is designed, many families also need help bringing the full event to life. I provide complete planning and on-site coordination to ensure the memorial or celebration of life runs smoothly so you can be fully present.

    Planning support includes:

    • Coordinating venues, vendors, rentals, catering, and transportation

    • Managing guest logistics and communications

    • Developing timelines and event plans

    • Sourcing and organizing keepsakes, printed materials, or photos

    Day-of coordination includes:

    • Serving as the point of contact for vendors and guests

    • Overseeing setup and breakdown

    • Keeping the event on track and handling any day-of needs

    • Supporting the family with a calm, steady presence throughout the event

    This is about more than logistics. It is about creating a space where meaning, memory, and connection can unfold without stress.

How I Can Support You

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Losing someone you love is overwhelming. The decisions, the details, the uncertainty can feel like too much all at once.

I offer hands-on, personalized support through every step of this transition. Whether you are planning ahead or responding to a recent loss, I walk alongside you with calm and grounded guidance that meets you where you are.

Together we shape a path forward that honors your loved one and gives you the structure, clarity, and space to grieve without feeling lost in the process.

Testimonials

“Kait made the pre- and post-passing process much easier. She had a very well-thought out list of questions to ask to complete before passing, which enabled things to go more smoothly later. Afterwards, she assisted with various administrative tasks that are particularly onerous in the immediate aftermath. Finally, she planned and executed a memorial that was moving and exactly what we were looking for. In short, her service allowed us to focus on the important aspects of the passing.” - C.B.